My suggestion is that you feed her at night.
In the morning, she won't be hungry. Then when you get home, she will be hungry.
Now when you feed 1 meal per day, Bekkie Boo Boo will quickly get into the routine of knowing I better eat a lot now
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You will find that after a few days, Bekkie Boo Boo will have absolutely no problem eating once per day. Oh sure, she may still look for food or perhaps meow a little. But it's in a carnivore's nature to look for food. But with one big meal per day, she will be fine and content.
Feeding once per day is always initially more stressful on the human than the cat or dog. But soon, you as the human, will be at peace with feeding just once per day and in fact, I guarantee you will find it is blessing to feed just once per day (but please remember, only mature dogs and cats should have one meal per day — puppies and kittens have a different feeding schedule).
As her immunity gets stronger, things like ear infections will not happen again. However, these are her weak spots. As she ages, don't be surprised if you encounter these problems again. Should they ever happen again, then you will know what to do.
Anyway, once you feed Bekkie Boo Boo once per day, you are going to see the opposite happen.
Currently, it is like this, as you described:
First she really doesn't touch it, then she comes back and eats a bit, then she finishes the whole thing off
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But, when you feed Bekkie Boo Boo once per day, it will be like this:
First she eats a lot, then comes back and eats a bit. Then she comes back and eats a little more and finishes the whole thing off
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See the difference?
- Bekkie Boo Boo: Part 1
- Bekkie Boo Boo: Part 2
- Bekkie Boo Boo: Part 3
- Bekkie Boo Boo: Part 4
- Bekkie Boo Boo: Part 5
- Bekkie Boo Boo: Part 6
- Bekkie Boo Boo: Part 7